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One reason to watch The L Word...
02.22.05 (6:27 pm)   [edit]

carmen


Sarah Shahi as "Carmen"

 
You can't change nature...
02.22.05 (5:18 pm)   [edit]
Zoo drops efforts to turn penguins straight
    & nbsp; By Larry Buhl, PlanetOut Network
    & nbsp; Friday, February 18, 2005 / 07:21 PM

SUMMARY: After six male penguins resisted all efforts to relate to female penguins, keepers at the Bremerhaven Zoo in Bremen, Germany, decided to let them stay gay.


Outrage from gay and lesbian groups and -- apparently -- the strength of animal amore, have thwarted a German zoo's plans to break up three gay penguin couples. After six male penguins resisted all efforts to mate with, or even relate to, female penguins, keepers at the Bremerhaven Zoo in Bremen, Germany, decided to let them stay gay.


Keepers at the Bremerhaven Zoo in Bremen, Germany, couldn't understand why six endangered Humboldt penguins, part of the zoo's 10-penguin exhibit, failed to produce offspring. Though the birds coupled up, did courting dances, built nests together and appeared to have sex, no babies were created -- although one couple adopted a stone that they protected as if it were an egg. When DNA tests showed that all six were male, zookeepers turned to a form of aversion therapy by coaxing them to mate with females.


But after four female penguins were imported from Sweden earlier this year to distract the males, it was clear the gay penguins would not turn "straight." The male couples were separated and introduced to the females one by one, but they pined for their mates until they were reunited.


German media reported on the plan, causing gay groups from around the world to deluge the zoo with angry e-mail messages and phone calls. The protests, plus the penguins' stubborn fidelity, caused the zoo to pull the plug on their aversion therapy efforts this week.


Responding to criticism, Director Heike Kueck said the zoo did not try to break up the same-sex pairs by force. Rather, administrators wanted to see if the birds were really homosexual or just lacking in opportunities for female companionship. "The relationships of the male couples were apparently too strong," said Kueck.


Attempts to turn gay penguins straight haven't met with much success. New York's Central Park Zoo gave up its plan to break up the six-year relationship of Roy and Silo by pairing them with female penguins. Roy briefly spent time with one female, but they separated early this year. Roy's flirtation with heterosexuality seems to have strained his relationship with Silo, however, since the two no longer spend time together.


Penguins don't have a lock on same-sex love, however. Scientists have found homosexual behavior throughout the animal world, and more so with animals in the wild than with those in captivity. Bonobos, apes closely related to humans, are nearly all bisexual -- and, studies have shown, wildly energetic sexually. Young male dolphin calves frequently form same-sex relationships.


Same-sex animal couplings have sparked debate over the origin of homosexual behavior. Gay rights groups have used gay animal examples to bolster the belief that homosexuality is natural, while conservative religious groups continue to call such couplings "animalistic."


Though she resists using animal behavior to draw conclusions about humans, Marlene Zuk, author of "Sexual Selections: What We Can and Can't Learn About Sex From Animals" (University of California Press, 2002) says that same-sex animal behavior can be used to expand our understanding of sexuality in general.


With bonobos in particular, Zuk explained, "You see expressions outside the period when females are fertile. Suddenly, you are beginning to see that sex is not necessarily about reproduction. Sexuality is a lot broader term than people want to think."


As for the six Bremerhaven penguins, the experiment doesn't seem to have caused a rift in their same-sex relationships. The four Swedish temptresses, meanwhile, are not exactly left out in the cold. The zoo has flown in two new male penguins, "so the ladies don't miss out altogether," Kueck said. He did not, however, indicate how they would solve the lopsided female-male ratio of uncoupled birds.


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sex toys = prostitution?
02.22.05 (4:43 pm)   [edit]

U.S. Supreme Court Refuses Alabama Case
Bobby Puppione, Alabama Public Radio









WASHINGTON, DC (2005-02-22) In 1998, the Alabama Legislature passed a wide ranging anti-obscenity law that included the sale of sex toys. The U-S Supreme Court declined to review a case concerning that law on Tuesday. Bobby Puppione reports.



The American Civil Liberties Union filed a challenge on behalf of merchants and users seeking to overturn the 1998 state law. Sherri Williams owns Pleasures stores in Huntsville and Decatur. She says nothing has changed at her store.

"Business as usual. I have an injunction. I am the only store in the state of Alabama that is prevented from any type of enforcement because I sought to get an injunction from the judge."

The Atlanta-based 11th U-S Circuit Court of Appeals ruled last July that siding with the sex toy merchants could open the door to the legalization of undesirable sexual behavior such as prostitution. Williams and other plaintiffs have twice won in trial court, but both time lost on an appeal filed by the Alabama attorney general's office.

For the Alabama Report, I'm Bobby Puppione.



© Copyright 2005, APR - ALABAMA PUBLIC RADIO

 
litterbugs and butts
02.19.05 (5:23 am)   [edit]

From CigaretteLitter.Org











"[Cigarette butts] also present a threat to wildlife. Cigarette filters have been found in the stomachs of fish, birds, whales and other marine creatures who mistake them for food ... Composed of cellulose acetate, a form of plastic, cigarette butts can persist in the environment as long as other forms of plastic."
--
Clean Virginia Waterways


Photo Courtesy Clean Virginia Waterways








"Considerate smokers don't litter. Those who do deserve criticism as much as any other litterer."
-- SmokingSection.Com (Militant Smoker's Rights Group)


 
the evolution of my dad
02.15.05 (1:26 pm)   [edit]

From an early age, my Dad was someone to whom I looked up to.  He was a hero.  He was funny, and loving, and kind, and silly, and honest and oh so strong.  I was always amazed at how strong his arms and hands were.  he was like a bull in a china shop, as the saying goes...he always seemed to have the strength of two men.  He could easily hurt someone, but his hands were kind and gentle. 


Nearly ten years ago, he suffered a heart attack and I saw a part of him leave us.  He never fully recovered from the damage it left to his personality, mind, health, etc.  That first time I walked into the hospital after the heart attack, I saw something I had never really imagined....the future, the decline and death of my dad, strength turning to weakness, immortality, and the world as a different place.


Since that time, he has been diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes and it seems this has added much to his decline.  He used to NEVER get sick.  Now, it seems that he catches the least little thing and it takes months to get over it. 


Again, the evolution continues.  Sometimes the reality hits me in the face....he is leaving us little by little....and I already miss him.  I miss his energy and his strength and laughter and jovial nature.  I miss being thrown up in the air and all those silly games he'd play with me.  I miss that part of the light that is gone from his eyes.  I miss his busy nature, always doing something, always working on something, and enjoying it immensely. 


Maybe this is part of the evolution of life, to help prepare us all for the inevitable.  Death.  I cried last night for the death of some of these beautiful things about my father.  Mourning for the loss of life I have already witnessed, and aching for what I have yet to experience.  But at the same time, wanting to enjoy what I have here now.  And hoping he has much enjoyment left for his days ahead.  I love you, Daddy.  You'll always be all of those things and more to me....the past, the present and forever.

 
sanctity?
02.05.05 (8:00 am)   [edit]
My Oxford American Edition Dictionary defines sanctity as: holiness; sacredness; inviolatbility. The Thesaurus section offers these words: piety, saintliness, divinity, godliness.

Ok, so if our government (and our people) are so interested in conserving the "sanctity" of marriage, why don't they? Why don't they focus on the positive things about marriage? Put your efforts/money/preaching to saving marriages in the United States. I know of many a divorce in the United States personally, but I don't know of any gay person causing a straight divorce. Not one. But I know of alot of other reason....cheating with other straight women or men, getting bored, disrespecting your spouse in speech, being possessive of them like they are a piece of property, killing them with unkind words day in and day out, and the list goes on....But why doesn't any of these self-righteous finger pointing politicians and citizens say anything about saving the real sanctity of marriage? Are they just turning a blind eye to the problems and choosing to focus on someone else to avoid reality?
If they are so concerned about saving marriage as it is, they why not just outlaw divorce? Why not make each couple undergo therapy prior to marriage? Why not call out their sins of disrespect to each other? Their emotional abuse? Their affairs? [u]Why not hold them accountable to their vows? [/u] Work on your own damn problems before you drag eveyone else into your mess! Geez. I'm happily committed and I don't need your shit! I'm not asking for what you have, because I have much better. All I want is for my partner to have legal rights to my stuff when I die. I want her to be took care of. I want what you could never understand, because your heart is so filled with hate you can't see the plain and simple truth of how you yourselves have fucked up the sanctity of marriage. [i]It's you, not me. [/i]Face up to your own mistakes and responsibilities and leave me the fuck alone!
 
this and that
02.02.05 (11:41 am)   [edit]

work is better today...the past two days were shitty.  the days are gloomy and cold.  i've had two staff members have deaths in their families this week and one staff member has been in the hospital.  there's something in the air, and it ain't good.  death, sickness, depression, stress....it's rampant!


i have always enjoyed reading, but it seems for some time now i can't concentrate to read.  i hate that.  i try, but i find myself reading a page and realizing i have no idea what i just read.  i wish that would stop, cause reading is a good stress reliever for me.


i really have a hard time concentrating all the time, not just reading.  i appear on the surface to be a calm and cool person....always have....but truthfully, i have become more adn more anxious with age.  i always thought you were supposed to mellow with age.  oh well. 


i need to get back to work.  ugh.